Saturday, January 31, 2009

Reality vs. make believe

AJ is very into dramatic play. He loves dress up clothes and his workbench and kitchen. He comes to me regularly and says "Mommy, I tending ..." I have been pleased with this development but bit worried that with all his super hero play -the latest being the Hulk- (thanks Daddy for letting the boy watch PG13 movies-UGH) that e doesn't understand that doing pretend things like on TV for real can hurt. He has been much more aggressive in his play and borders on violent at times. I was VERY surprised and pleased when the following conversation took place last week:

AJ and I were driving to his grandma's before I had to be at work on a particularly bad day weather wise. I got a call explaining that one of the teachers at my center was going to be late as her car slid off the road into a ditch. Thankfully she wasn't hurt. I explained to AJ that Ms. Carie was waiting for a tow truck. He stated "Mater is a tow truck" refering to a charachter from the movie Cars. I replied" Yes he is. Maybe Mater will help Ms. Carie" To which my 4 year old replied with an exasperated tone. "Mommy, Mater is NOT in our Earf (Earth)" It took me a second to realize he was commenting on the fact that Mater is a fidtional charachter. I replied " you are right, Mommy is silly" AJ said "He's just in movies and books Mommy."

Once again schooled by a four year old. I am always amazed how much more he "gets it" than I realize. I ave to be more careful not to underestimate him. Even while he's ripping his shirt off and running around the house screaming "Hulk SMASH!"

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